Have you ever had that awkward feeling that comes at a family gathering when you're sitting across the table from someone who you know is buttering you up to ask for a loan?
I have. It can be amusing, or uncomfortable, but if it catches you and your spouse unprepared, it can be upsetting as well. If you have family members in need, or who have asked you for personal loans in the past, it's a good idea to consider your alternatives before you are confronted with the "opportunity" again.